Death is seldom easy, especially for the bereaved. In Luke 24: 13-25 we read the story of the disciples on the road to Emmaus blinded by their grief until “the stranger” encourages them to do what comes naturally after death – tell the story and share the memories of the deceased. In keeping with the Jewish understanding the Risen Christ was made present for those disciples in remembering as surely as He was present to them on the road and in the breaking of the bread. Remembering is why wakes are important. They are for remembering that death is one of life’s many passages, that is passing from life to death, there is a passing from death to life – passing on, a handing over as well. In both life and death our loved ones pass on to us a spirit that is uniquely their own. They leave us with their own special influence, passing on the faith that sustained and supported them. During this month of November we are encouraged to pray for all our beloved dead.