As a society in general we are losing our sense of decorum and civility. Sadly to say this is also true at Mass. We have a responsibility to reverse that, to remember the reason we attend church to know God, to love and serve Him.
- provide instruction for children – parents have an obligation to show their children the appropriate times to kneel, sit, stand and face the altar, not let them amuse themselves as if Mass is playtime. Involve them in the liturgy by teaching them to pray and telling them that Jesus is on the altar.
- no food or water during Mass. If an able-bodied adult requires a drink of water to take some medication or other reasons, drink the water outside the celebration of the Eucharist. (Our parish does not support bottled water on the church property). Please do not bring coffee cups into the church.
- arrive on time – if you are late for Mass be courteous to others and wait for and appropriate break before you walk down the aisle to find a seat. Most symphonies do not allow latecomers to waltz in whenever they please. Our ushers will help you find a seat.
- don’t leave early – set a good example for your children by staying in the pew until Mass has ended with the final hymn.
- participate in the Mass – don’t ask “What is the Mass doing for me?” Instead ask, “What can I do to participate more fully in the Mass?” Make an effort to listen to the readings and the homily, recite the prayers of the Mass, follow along in the missalette or prayer book and when the music starts, sing! You will become an outstanding role model for your children.
- no talking please – do not have conservations during Mass. You wouldn’t do that during a theatrical performance; if you do you would be asked to be quiet or to leave. Show respect for the priest and your fellow parishioners.